Flirty Text Messages For Him - Make Him Pay Attention To You!

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5 Flirty Text Messages Reveal His Feelings
By: Carlos Cavallo

When you realize just how often you use your phone each day, you probably also realize that you need flirty text messages that will make a guy pay attention to you - in any conversation.

It's become an unavoidable fact of life these days that everybody and their grandma has a mobile phone.

And Grandpa, too!

Whether it's checking your Facebook feed or liking your friend's perfectly Instagrammed breakfast, most of us have our faces glued to our shiny mobile phone throughout the day.

Oh, and let’s not forget texting.

Even before touchscreen smartphones became all the rage, texting was already one of the easiest ways to send off a quick flirty message to someone, like a guy you're hoping to get a conversation and a date with.

Like other forms of modern communication, texting is a GREAT tool for flirting - IF you know how to use it.
It's so effective, in fact, that I’ve used it to start more than a few relationships in the past.

That said, I'm going to give you a handful of super-sweet, flirty text messages that will get any guy to pay attention to you. (And yes, a few "good morning" texts")

Now, before we get started with that, I wanted to lay down some do's and dont's of texting a guy.

You can send him as many flirty texts as you want. BUT a guy still won't feel attracted to you - and even possibly turned off - if you don't know the basic conversation guidelines:

Texting Power Tip #1: DO be playful EVEN IF he's blowing you off
Remember that there's always the possibility that a guy might not be interested. It's a fact of life, and we're grownups here.

So if his replies are limited to a couple of syllables, like the dreaded "ok" (and its equally hated cousin,"K"), it could be any of the following reasons:

- A serious relationship isn't at the top of his priorities right now...
- He met someone else...
- He has issues that has nothing do with you... (highly probable, in fact)
- He's a flaky kind of guy... (regrettably, also probable)
So, you shouldn't take any of it personally.

Women always ask me about their man's "mixed signals", and most of the time there's really nothing "mixed" about it - he's probably just not the right guy for them.

Or he's just not that into a relationship at that point, so his disinterest is just that.

Even if he's not up for a round of flirting, don't let it crush your spirits. If anything, just look at it as an opportunity to respond in a playful and classy way.

You might be tempted to fire off a needy response - like "K? That's it?" or "Why are you so cold all of a sudden?"

Trust me, it’s better to resist the urge and reply with something like:

"LOL, looks like someone's got a case of the one-liners today :)"
"Cat got your tongue huh? Lemme know when you get it back ;)"
"I shocked him into silence! I'm so naughty..."
Don't forget to thrown in those lighthearted emojis to set the right tone and not sound sarcastic or like you're confronting him.

Who knows, he could just be having a crappy day. Show him you're not rattled about it and he might even open up and tell you what's going on with him.

He just needs to feel ACCEPTED.
And keep this in mind: Sometimes guys just don't check their phones for hours. Seriously, we're not as into our phones as women are.

I've been known to miss a text for up to 12 hours.

Texting Power Tip #2: DO avoid "just friends"-sounding texts
The last thing your dream guy wants to hear from a Potential Girlfriend (i.e. you) that he’s “just friends” with her. It’s basically pouring a cold bucket of water over the sparks of attraction before they’ve had a chance to burn hot.

You might be thinking, “WHY would I want a guy I like to feel that there’s no chance for us to become MORE than friends? I’m not crazy!”

Well, most women don’t realize they’re unintentionally sending the wrong message, but it does happen. A lot.

For instance, you might text him, “Dude, did you ..."

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