Neediness, Insecurity & Scarcity

How feelings and self-perceptions of neediness, insecurity and scarcity mindsets negatively influence us to negotiate poorly on our behalf, tolerate behavior we should reject and generally cause us to settle for lives and relationships that are less than what we really want and deserve.

In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a female viewer who shares how my work is helping her to change her life for the better. She goes into explicit detail of a recent experience she had dating a guy who displayed all kinds of red flags that should have led to her deleting him from her life permanently, but she did just the opposite. She really does a good job of self-reflection, trouble-shooting and introspection to find the root causes of her limiting beliefs and self-perceptions that led to her dating a man she should have rejected quickly. She also illustrates how this same pattern showed up in her previous relationships and her interactions with men she dated in the past. It’s a great email that details the process both men and women go through to understand themselves, other people, why people do what they do in relationships and how to take their personal power back so they can become the person they were meant to be.

“Fear that we’re not good enough or that we won’t be loved & accepted are the biggest self-created mental obstacles and barriers that prevent most of us from reaching our full potential, and achieving our grandest goals and dreams. Fear causes us to try and force things that are not matching our expectations or to completely avoid taking any action that will move our lives towards what we want. When you think, feel & know that you are worthy and deserving of greatness, you will act consistently in ways that make that greatness a possibility. When you think, feel & believe that you are unworthy and not deserving of greatness, you will act consistently in ways that consciously and unconsciously sabotage your success, and take you further away from what you want. If you presently have a negative self-perception or limiting belief about yourself, the only way to overcome them is to take action towards what you want in spite of your fears on a permanent consistent daily basis. You must know what you want, why you want it, take action to make it happen, learn from your mistakes and continually refine & improve your approach over time. Successful people persevere no matter what obstacles, setbacks and challenges they encounter. Unsuccessful people give up & permanently quit as soon as things get difficult.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne

If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:

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From my heart to yours,

Corey Wayne