I Don’t Know Myself Anymore

Why being in a relationship with a toxic person or someone who is not a good match for you can cause you to question and doubt yourself to the point that you feel guilty, and as if you don’t know yourself anymore.

In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss two different emails from two different viewers. The first email is from a viewer who is thirty-five and has been with his girlfriend for the past six years. She is twenty-six. Things have been very difficult the past year. She says she loves him but is not in love with him. Last week she got drunk, made out with and groped another man. She swears it won’t happen again. He says he would marry her. He is distraught and often has suicidal thoughts. The second email is from a woman who has been in an abusive relationship for the past six years. There have been many fights, breakups and some physical abuse on both sides. He often lied to her about where he was, what he was doing and where he had been. This bad relationship has caused her to be fearful of future relationships and feel like she does not even know herself anymore. She asks my opinion.

“Strong emotions and feelings of love often blind us and prevent our seeing people and situations for what they really are. When you love someone, you care for him or her despite any glaring flaws. Nobody is perfect after all and everyone has flaws. Physical attraction does not automatically make someone a good match or a compatible lover. Since most people in society tend to settle for people who are less than their ideal, they often stick around longer than they should, hoping that things will change or that they can change the other person. When you think about your best friends and how easy it is to get along with them in an effortless way, common sense should make it obvious that unless a lover is easy to get along and communicate with, they simply are not a good match and you should move on and continue your search. Fear of the future, fear that you won’t find anyone better, fear of being alone, etc., are lies and illusions made up by our monkey brains that must be ignored in order to break free and reach our full potential.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne

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From my heart to yours,

Corey Wayne