The Illusion Of Strength

How to properly display consistent masculine dominance, emotional self control and self respect, instead of coming unglued, revealing an illusion of strength and causing a woman to lose all of her respect and attraction for you.

In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who seemed to be pretty cocky and full of himself and his illusory success with his girlfriend. He says he has been following me for a while. They were dating for about three months and they finally decided to become exclusive. Then one night while they were hanging out, she started being bitchy and projecting her anger onto him. He decided to leave and go home. The next day she called to apologize and said she thought he was still mad. He denied this. Then he did not hear from her for twenty-four hours and he freaked out. He totally lost his emotional center, emotional self-control and this revealed his false sense and image of masculine strength. He then proceeded to blow up her phone with questions of “What’s going on? Where do we stand? Why are you ignoring me? Etc.” Then he found out she has used his credit card to make some purchases without his authorization. He got his money back, but he’s wondering what he can do to get over this since he still cares for her.

“Impatience never commands success. It’s always better to take a deep breath and take a step back when you are under pressure or feel under pressure to do something or make a rash decision without gathering all of the facts first. This is especially true when it comes to negotiation. It’s better to walk away from a bad deal and never look back, than to bluff that you are walking away, only to turn around in a moment of desperation and reveal your weaker position. When you care more about what you want than the other party to a negotiation does and you show this, you will lose all power and leverage to get the best deal for yourself and the terms you desire.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne

If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:

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From my heart to yours,

Corey Wayne