Pickup: The Non-Approach Approach

How to create the right vibe and conditions to influence beautiful women around you to approach you first in order to get their phone numbers, contact information or make a date on the spot, instead of you having to make the effort to pursue and pick them up.

In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who is relatively new to my work. He says he’s read my book twice so far, and he wanted to test out what I teach to see how women would react to him. He went to a friend’s birthday party at a bar, and instead of approaching women he was interested in, he hung back, exhibited the proper body language, and simply focused on enjoying himself. He behaved completely opposite to the way most guys were acting at the party who were trying to pursue and pickup women. He shares two success stories of how he was able to cause two different women to reveal their interest to him and approach him first in hopes that his interest was mutual and therefore he would ask them out. This is a great email example for guys who are really shy and terrified of approaching women, on how they can take the lazy man’s way of causing women to approach them and pick them up. When a woman is approaching you and expressing her interest either overtly or covertly, you no longer have to fear or worry about rejection. This is another example of a guy successfully using what I teach in my article, “How To Get Women To Approach You First.”

“It is a man’s job to be direct, decisive and take advantage of the opportunities that the universe brings to him when he encounters women he finds attractive by either getting contact information or making a date on the spot. Most women are not going to ask a man out for a date when they find him attractive because that is the man’s job in the social interaction. However, most women will put themselves into a man’s orbit to get his attention when they find him attractive by approaching him, asking for his advice or opinion, standing near him, asking other people about him or making eye contact while they smile, play with their hair or physically touch him. Guys who are shy and terrified of rejection should take the lazy man’s way of picking up women by focusing on having a good time, taking up too much space, exhibiting alpha male body language, smiling, laughing and being 100% present with people who they are engaged in conversation with. If they do, this will cause them to appear approachable, comfortable with themselves, happy, successful, content, safe, fun, likeable, desirable, and like a man who is already very successful with women and who has lots of choices with them. Men who are successful in life and with women, always get approached by women due to their non-hungry and abundant state of being.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne

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