When Someone Doesn't Like You, Do This!

When someone shows us that they don't like us or they disrespect us, our initial instinct is to prove ourselves to them - that we are capable, worthy, nice, good people.

But Jesus never teaches us to do that. Instead, He teaches us to forgive this person who acts like our enemy and this is how we break our codependency on them.

We pray for them, we bless them, we do good to them because we want to be like our Father in Heaven, not in order to prove ourselves to them.

We choose to do the last thing we feel like doing because we made a commitment to Jesus to learn from Him and do what He says - sometimes, in spite of our feelings and even our beliefs!

✅ How to Stop People Pleasing:

https://rumble.com/v13yjlp-how-to-stop-people-pleasing.html

✅ What is the Root of People Pleasing? :

https://rumble.com/v133zx3-what-is-the-root-of-people-pleasing.html

✅ What Is Codependency / People-Pleasing / Fear of Man? :

https://rumble.com/v10gu5v-what-is-codependency-people-pleasing-fear-of-man.html

✅ What's the Difference between Love and People Pleasing? :

https://rumble.com/vocoej-whats-the-difference-between-love-and-people-pleasing.html

✅ What the Prodigal Son Teaches Us about Emotions:

https://rumble.com/vo1h0b-what-the-parable-of-the-prodigal-son-teaches-us-about-processing-emotions.html

✅ Step 9 and 10 in Processing Our Emotions: How to Tell Someone They've Done Something Wrong:

https://rumble.com/vng5lx-how-to-tell-someone-theyve-done-something-wrong.html

✅ Step 8 in Processing Our Emotions: How To Decide When To Break Up or Continue A Relationship:

https://rumble.com/vn5f6j-how-to-decide-when-to-break-up-or-continue-a-relationship.html

✅ Step 7 in Processing our Emotions: What about Payback? :

https://rumble.com/vmlah3-what-about-payback-lie-1-god-punishes-us-part-21-how-to-stop-anger-and-bitt.html

✅ Step 6 in Processing Our Emotions: How to Change (Repent):

https://rumble.com/vmmmtx-how-to-change-lie-1-god-punishes-us-part-20-how-to-stop-anger-and-bitternes.html

✅ Step 5 in Processing our Emotions: How to Really Forgive:

https://rumble.com/vm05pv-how-to-really-forgive-lie-1-god-punishes-us-part-17-how-to-stop-anger-and-b.html

✅ Forgiveness is the Basis of Our Relationship with God: The Parable of the Unforgiving Servant:

https://rumble.com/vlpmzi-the-parable-of-the-unforgiving-servant-lie-1-god-punishes-us-part-19-stop-a.html

✅ Why Our Forgiving Others Is Important to God: Forgiving Others:

https://rumble.com/vl1smv-forgiving-others-lie-1-god-punishes-us-part-17-how-to-stop-anger-and-bitter.html

✅ Step 1 to 4 in Processing Our Emotions: How God Forgives Us – Our Part:

https://rumble.com/vkre43-how-god-forgives-us-our-part-lie-1-god-punishes-us-part-16-how-to-stop-ange.html

✅ Processing Our Emotions – The Basics: How God Forgives Us – Jesus’s Part:

https://rumble.com/vkhfy7-how-god-forgives-us-jesus-lie-1-god-punishes-us-part-14-how-to-stop-anger-a.html

✅ Processing our Emotions – the Basics: How God Forgives Us:

https://rumble.com/vk6nxa-how-god-forgives-us-lie-1-god-punishes-us-series-part-14-how-to-stop-anger-.html