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25 Texts You Should NEVER Send A Guy
By: Carlos Cavallo

When it comes to texting a guy, you need to know what texts you should never send a guy more than anything else. Mistakes in texting will earn you silence - sometimes making him ghost you.

Guys interpret what you text him. And if we see any red flags, we get more cautious, more silent, and less interested.

I'm going to show you almost ALL of the red flags guys see in texting.

Before I get started, though, I realize that seeing a bunch of "don't do this" tips is going to eventually make you feel like you can't do ANYTHING right when it comes to winning his heart.

Don't look at this as being a huge rant about "you're doing it all wrong!" It's really a list of things that you might have been unaware you were flubbing for a while.

Watch out if you find yourself saying:

"Why do I have to do all the work? Why doesn't HE have to fix anything?"

In fact, if you find yourself extremely sensitive to messages that make you feel as if you're making all the mistakes, that's a sign you should probably stop and apply some self-care.

Now, let's go through the 25 texts you should never send a guy.

Let's do this countdown style:

#25 Don't Text: Naked pics, or sexy body part images
These days you just don't want to show up on some website somewhere. If your relationship doesn't go the way you hope, you don't want this guy having these kinds of pictures of you.

PERIOD.

No matter how much you think you may trust him right now, I'm sure you have relationships that have felt similar in the past. And they may not have gone so well.

A lot of guys will try to get you to send this kind of picture to him. It's a bit of a test. He probably does want to see you naked - obviously, but it doesn't mean you need to oblige him. In fact it's the wrong thing to do.

Save the intimacy for the bedroom. Save it for the right time.

And give him something to look forward to. A huge part of pulling a man into loving you is knowing what to hold back at the start. These days, women are giving up way too much too soon to men.

#24 Don't Text: Anything boring or day to day ordinary
You may want to text him the same kind of stuff do you send to your girlfriends.

But don't do it. I guarantee you it's going to bore him and it's going to make him less responsive.

Guys don't text like that.

It's tempting to let him in on the nitty-gritty details of your life. But quite honestly this isn't very interesting to him.

Save it for when you feel you have something interesting to share, or possibly if you need his emotional support. You don't want to turn texting into your everyday conversation.

#23 Don't Text: Multiplicity
One habit that's easy to fall into when you're texting is sending a text message with multiple characters or multiple emojis.

EXAMPLE: “Heyyyyyyyy”

The best advice I can give you is DON'T do this. It looks kind of high school-ish, and it diminishes how he sees you.

Simply spell words correctly, and intelligently.

#22 Don't Text: Short texts that are hard to read
EXAMPLE: “Hey you”

This one is obviously a bid for attention. If you want to start a conversation, start with a question. Engage him with something.

EXAMPLE: “K”

You know you hate it when guys send you this one letter, so don't send it back. Send a full “OK” - or nothing at all.

EXAMPLE: “I guess”

I think we both know what's going on with this particular text. You want to say you disagree, but you know it's easier to go with the flow.

Or at least you're afraid to go against the flow.

Again, this is very ambiguous to a guy, and he won't understand it. More than likely you'll just start an argument.

This is called the “passive aggressive” text. Mostly because it feels like you’re not telling us what you really want, and then expecting us to fish it out of you.

Definitely not inspiring to a man.

#21 Don’t Text: Drunk or under the influence!
If you've ever gotten a text from a man who is drunk, you know what I'm talking about here. We always seem to be more embarrassing than endearing when it comes to Drunk Texting.

If you know you're going to be out with the girls and having a few glasses of wine, it's probably best that you ...

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