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7 Signs He Cares About You
By: Carlos Cavallo

In today's dating world, it's hard to know if a man truly feels for you. You may find yourself looking for signs he cares about you quite often.

The trickiest part is knowing for sure. We all want guarantees when it comes to relationships - especially when we're in love.

But even more important, you want to know if he feels for you genuinely. You want to know if these are honest feelings of love, and not just lust or a desire to get you into bed.

There are a few ways you can do this without going insane in the process. Men give off very clear signs of how they feel. They do this through body language, words they use, and of course their actions.

Before I talk about some of the signs, let's talk about one very important fact about men:

Men will typically not tell you how they feel unless they are extremely emotionally compromised.
What I mean by this is that he will only tell you how he feels when:

He has the words to explain it
He is absolutely sure he feels it
He loses all ability to stop himself from telling you about his feelings
Most men simply don't have very good emotional coping mechanisms. But on the other side of that, there is one mechanism that has served him well.

Silence.

Most men simply don't talk about their feelings with you to keep himself safe. We stay silent.

This is part of the nature of men. We are part born this way, and we are also nurtured to be this way.

Now you may think this means he doesn't care for you, if he can't talk about his feelings with you. But this is very far from the truth.

So when he is particularly quiet about his feelings, you can't project how he feels. Many women see men who are quiet and think this means he doesn't feel the same things you do. Not true at all.

He's just being as cautious as you are.

If he feels overwhelmed by his emotions for you, then he will break this Code of Silence and tell you how much he cares about you.
One of the big mistakes is to take any of these signs I’m going to show you and assume that if he doesn't show that sign, that means he doesn't care about you. That's not true either.

Here are a few quick reference signs for when a man does not care about you.

Let's look at some of the signs he isn’t The One for you first, before I get into the main list.

Signs He's Not The One For You:
No - or very little - trust: Without trust, your relationship is as good as dead...

You don't get a genuine Vibe of Desire from him. He should make you feel wanted and desired...

You never really feel like you're enough for him...

You're never his priority. He's always finding something more important...

He's not generous with you - whether that's buying you the occasional gift, or making you feel special from time to time...

He's cheated on you within the first several months of your relationship - this is a fatal mistake from Which you should NOT forgive him...

He's very clingy and needy, very insecure - this usually means he will have more emotional and control issues coming soon...

He's into putting you down and making you feel inadequate or less than him...

No one in his family or friends knows about you...

He's only into the physical side of your relationship...

He almost never asks you questions about you, your interests, or your life...

You feel a lot of familiar anxieties come up from your childhood when you're with him...

Of course there are a ton more than these but they are a great place to start when you're wondering if he might not be the one for you.

Now, let's move over into the positive signs. These are some of the best indicators that a man cares about you and wants only the best for you.

SIGN #1 He Cares About You: Time is of his essence
One of the most important and treasured resources in a man's life is his time. Men value time most of all as it translates directly into his income and his recreation.

One of the most significant signs that he cares for you is his willingness to spend his time with you. Even if a guy is working two jobs, taking care of his mom, going to night school, whatever, he will make time for you if he cares for you.

This is a rule of relationships that many people trick themselves about. They will start making excuses for why the other person can't see them.

The truth is that --

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Carlos Cavallo
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Signs he cares about you
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