14 ways my Filipina knows I am committed to her (upload)

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You’ve heard the expression that talk is cheap. Anyone can say they will do something but until they are in situations that require them to prove it, no one can know for sure. When someone gets married, of course they want to hear their spouse say that they are committed to them, who wouldn’t? When we say we are committed to someone, initially we are expressing the idea that come what may, we believe we can be trusted to do what is best for the relationship.

A definition of commitment is to bind or obligate, as by pledge or assurance. It is not to be taken lightly. Before committing to someone, we need to consider what could go wrong. There are plenty of YouTube videos about that, but I want Love Beyond The Sea to be a channel that helps a foreigner be committed to his Filipina wife. I do not think that commitment without marriage is commitment.

Here are the words I wrote for my wife on our wedding invitations: Aiza (last name), you are the apple of my eye and I want to spend the rest of my life with you. It will be my privilege to protect you, provide for you, defend you, honor you and meet your needs as best I can. I am excited for you to be my lover and best friend. Having you as my wife will make my life complete. I am eternally grateful to God for our union and with His help will be forgiving and unselfish, loving you all the days of your life. We got married in less than eight weeks but I have been trying to live this out ever since.

Before we got married, all we had was promises. During the wedding ceremony, we were told what God’s expectations were for us and to rely on His help to fulfill them. Once we were married, words were only going to go so far, there needed to be actions behind them, and they needed to be repeated.

I’ll bet if you asked my Filipina wife if she thinks I am committed to her she would say that I am. If you asked her if she thought I would be committed to her after we were married, she would probably respond with “I think so”. How would she really know at that point? After over four and a half years of marriage I have had opportunities to prove my commitment to her, which is another way of saying to prove my love to her. In a little while I will be more specific about how my wife would know that I am committed to her and there are probably more than 14.

To me commitment means being obligated to each other no matter how hard, how much it hurts, how inconvenient it is, and how much you just don’t feel like it.

Watch the video and learn how I show my commitment to my love beyond the sea!

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