How we get hooked by narcissists and psychopaths

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How we get hooked by narcissists and psychopaths

Walnuts in brownies

1. Place on a pedestal; special; the one person who really understands me

2. Grooming attach / abuse trauma (devaluing)

3. Punish and reward: The transition is where the trauma bond forms

Cashew and walnuts or brownies and liver

Bait and switch

4. Criticized, teased, bullied, humiliated, 'score points'

5. Punishment and reward / think Pavlov's dogs

6. Make excuses (cults) denial

7. You are accused of being the problem (to you and others)

8. Eventually, there are no more brownies.

Devalued you in their own eyes.

9. There will be a discard. The question is who discards whom.

"I don't want to be a yo yo"

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