The Personal Boundary – Being Dad with Phil Lower, September 24, 2022

Remember that when you control the ends you control everything in between.

Control Anger and Anxiety and you control your Negative Energy.
Control your Well-being and Confidence and you control your Self-esteem.
Control your education Left-brain and your experience Right-brain and you control your Genius.
Control your Decision-making Conscience and Intuition and you control your Wisdom.

With your Personal Boundary there re things you control and are out of your control.

Stress comes from the uncontrollable environment

Sales job offer story

The Nature of Suffering and holes in your boundary.

No preferences = No Identity

Teach your kids the Power of Saying Yes or No

Sometimes No is used as Tough Love.
Trouble hearing No = Thin Skin = Suffering
Pushing buttons or feeling overwhelmed
People manipulate with Guilt and Shame
Denial is an Illusion created by a boundary hole Should be a certain way.
You are not somebody’s whole world.

Thick skinned scarring from Trauma.
Strong walls against stress is hard when not stressed.

Doors open and close = Preferences
Constructive vs Destructive

Agree to Disagree not Hold Grudges

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