You believe the thoughts they express

People who argue with you are presenting you with the thoughts you believe. We know it seems as if you believe opposite thoughts, but really--what's the difference? All of the opposing thoughts are about an illusion, not a reality. Look a little deeper, though. Let's say that someone is adamantly insisting that the world is flat. They are insisting that the world is a shape and that it is real. This is what you believe. You can stop a moment with this. The only things you can argue about are illusions that you believe are real. When you step back, you can release out of this.

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