“WHO HURT YOU?!”

Every one of us that has dared to play the mating game has been hurt by a woman, and that's because all women come with risk, which means that sometimes you're going to fail. But that's not a bad thing. Simply accept it. Accept that you're never going to be able to train any of them into becoming the perfect wife and mother to your children. Women are only human, and therefore, behave with default metrics unique to their gender. All you can do is do your best to react firmly towards undesirable behaviors, and reward the rest that suit you. Women are not our enemies. They complement us and make life worth living. So don't use the burns you've accumulated when dealing with them as an excuse to always keep them at a fearful distance.