I dated a self proclaimed nice guy

I dated a self-proclaimed "nice guy"

I dated the kind of guy that claimed women don't go for him because of X Y or Z. He wasn't conventionally attractive. He was rather awkward, but I thought he was cute. He was the typical 'women don't give me a chance :( but I could show them the world if they just overlooked my looks and status e.t.c :(' So I gave him a chance.

Fast forward to a few months later and boy am I traumatized. This man tried in a million and one ways to coerce me to have sex with him even when I made sure he understood that I have sexual trauma and have never had sex. It was so fucking awful. He would whip his dick out and beg and beg and beg. And I'd have to say no over and over again. He constantly talked about his ex. He emotionally manipulated me and would give me the silent treatment for days because I could never have sex with him.

Many men claim to be heartbroken or ignored or unappreciated only to end up being an emotionally abusive nightmare when you’re in a relationship with them. These "nice guys" are not so nice after all. But I'm waiting for someone to rebut with "so women Don't want nice guys?" Actually, I don't want any guys. I'm done lmfao. I have enough trauma from my dad. I will be focusing on me and enjoying it henceforth.

Edit: just wanted to add that he would try to coerce me to have sex with him, subtly shame me for saying no, but in the same breath was very vocal about shaming women that enjoyed having sex.

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