She leaves a guy at rock bottom, but when he becomes a winner, she's furious.

She leaves a guy at rock bottom, but when he becomes a winner, she's furious. Modern woman

This modern woman was so furious after she divorced her husband and saw how happy his life was without her. These modern women are the reason mean are going their own way (MGTOW) and the passport bros are are growing so much.

TL;DR -- Got divorced nearly 3 years ago. He [M37] turned his life around, I'm [F34] struggling.

My husband and I were together for 10 years, married for 6 of them. No kids.

We eventually grew apart - that is to say, I grew up and he didn't. He wanted to live the life of a teenager well into his 30s. The last 2-3 years together were horrible. After his dad passed away, he gained all this weight and lost his job. I tried to help and support him but he would just wallow in self-pity. He stopped pitching in around the house. He spent all his free time smoking weed and dicking around on the computer. He had to sell his junk car to help pay our bills.

Eventually I'd had enough and we got a divorce in 2015. We've essentially been 'no contact' since it was finalized.

Last Friday I happened to bump into him downtown and he's a completely different person. He lost all the weight he put on and had actually toned up some. He was wearing a tailored suit (he had one ill-fitting suit for weddings and funerals when we were together) and a nice watch. He may have gotten hair plugs or something because his thinning hair wasn't as pronounced as before. He told me he bought a condo nearby within walking distance of his new job - a well-known tech firm in our town.

Our encounter was brief and he was nice to me. He even apologized for how our relationship had soured and wished me "all the best".

It's been 4 days since I saw him and honestly I just get angrier the more I think about it. I gave 10 of the best years of my life to this man and got nothing from it. We never had kids. He never had much money. When we divorced, I started from square one.

Now he's "Mr. Successful" while I'm struggling. My job is very stressful and I'm making less than I was 5 years ago. I live alone and money is tight. I've been having some intestinal / digestive issues and doctors can't seem to diagnose what's wrong with me.

I guess I just want to know why he couldn't have been better to me, why I was never worth the effort.

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