We should not be putting others under a performance based system. It only creates guilt and shame...

We need to let the Holy Spirit teach and lead others. We need to love others like Christ loved us. If we put others under the law, it will destroy your friendship with them and you will lose everything you had with them. This is your friendship with them, and all chances to be in their life moving forwrd. Instead, we should forgive and forget and just encourage and love and support others and then let God's word work in their lives. It's the Grace way. Welcome to the Grace Life Unleashed......