No Boner - Physical and Mental Causes (fix)

Not getting a boner has both physical and psychological causes. Sterling Cooper talks about men experiencing difficulty getting and maintaining an erection with a new sexual partner. He suggests considering factors such as changes in diet, testosterone levels, and cardiovascular health as well as psychological factors.

Stirling highlights the role of psychological factors, suggesting that anxiety, placing the new partner on a pedestal, and performance pressure (performance anxiety) can significantly impact arousal. He stresses the need to treat the mental side of things before considering any visible physical issues.

Stirling discusses the misconception that taking medication like Viagra (the "little blue pill") will solve the problem, noting that if the issue is primarily mental, the medication will not be effective. He recommends adopting a "selfish pervert"" frame of mind where the focus is on enjoying oneself and being present in the moment rather than putting pressure on oneself to perform or achieve a specific outcome. Stirling relates this approach to historical examples of how great emperors and returning warriors treated their partners in passionate and dominant ways: the primal, lustful, insatiable and passionate sex that all men can relate to. He suggests that women can enjoy a physical and dominant approach to lovemaking and that it can enhance pleasure for both partners if approached with passion and lust. They laugh about the term "sexual Tyrannosaurus" from the movie Predator.

Stirling Cooper is an award-winning adult film star and the world's best sex coach for men. Here he talks with @BeRealTV

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Timestamps:
0:00 A lot of guys ask about not being able to get a boner with a new girl
0:19 What is the cause of their erection problem?
1:08 Physical and Psychological factors
1:25 The little blue pill increases blood flow but not arousal so you're pushing rope
2:08 Arousal starts in the mind
2:37 Performance anxiety and performance pressure
3:07 Prescription: be a Selfish Pervert
5:09 Emperors and returning warriors give women passionate, lustful, insatiable sex
5:31 Sexual Tyrannosaurus

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