You Need To Stop Giving a F*ck - अब nice guy बनना बंद करो

Being a nice person doesn't mean that you're actually nice. It means that you are programmed to hide your flaws in order to be validated and loved by other people. Approval seeking behavior is deeply rooted in one's childhood and that's why in order to overcome this unconscious programming, you must increase your self awareness and understand what caused you to put others' need above yours.

0:00 Approval seeking
1:08 Cause of approval seeking
1:31 Good vs Bad parenting
2:06 Origins of a nice guy
2:57 Scarface
3:50 Definition of a nice guy
4:20 How to be stop being nice
4:29 Niceness is an unconscious behavior
7:45 Be assertive
8:23 Identify your programming
9:40 Fear of judgement
11:10 Love without expectations
12:42 Don't listen to nice guys
13:25 Your life's mission
14:20 Maintain high standards
15:07 Find your own voice