WISDOM BITS - people who ALWAYS pull you down = not wedding material. Just pain to break life cycles

There will be plenty of such people. These are never going to aid you in life, except figuring out (which, yes, will take time) what your worth is. Since you're the one doing the work and they never change. It's like they're always investing their energy is the most irrelevant things. You're gonna try again and again, yet the result is always the same. No change. Isn't this madness trying?