What was the most fucked up thing someone said to you?

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My dad defended my childhood rapistSaid men have needs, I should feel flattered he chose me. How can I even call it rape, if I was too young to not know the word back then?
I had a very complicated pregnancy. I found out at 4 months(crazy, I know). I was extremely high risk, and my FIL was asking my husband what he'd do if it he had to choose me or the baby. Before hubby could answer, my MIL pipes up with "Well, if it's her or the baby save the baby you can find a better mother." I WAS STANDING RIGHT THERE. Husband lost it.
I was basically bedridden after an accident left me in constant, debilitating pain..my ex screamed in my face to "just die already" but apparently Im remembering it wrong and it wasnt that big of a deal
I was 11 and it was my first group sleepover. One of the girls told me she would shove a pair of high heels so far up my vagina that I'd never be able to have children. She also threw my teddy against the wall and it's eye popped out!
My dads speech at my moms funeral: †mom and son had a close relationship, I’d have preferred to have a daughter.“ Not sure how thats relevant for the occasion but ok. Either that or the: “Your mom wanted you, not me.“ Many years before that.Somehow he’s still surprised I blocked him and didnt give him my new address.
To kill myself when I was 9, at a family reunion, by a 45 year old auntie.I asked my mom about it earlier and got more context. She was disappointed that I was half white, hadn't skipped a grade and that made me "a disgrace to the black half of the family." She had apparently called her after the whole ordeal.
"It shouldn't've been your dad. It should've been you. It should've been you."Said repeatedly by my mother, both drunk and sober, after my father's death. I think I looked too much like him for her.
My mom once told me that if she had had to live my life, she would have killed herself at 16 y/o.
I was working at a school with my two best friends, who were engaged. I was a teacher (f), one friend (f) was a teacher and the other friend (m) was a teaching assistant. Our principal accused me of trying to start an affair. He went out of his way to warn both of my friends about me and his “concerns†that I was trying to steal my friend’s Fiancé.
My mom told me that if anyone got close enough to really know me, they’d find out what a bitch I am and have nothing to do with me anymore. (PS: I have lifelong friends and a relationship with my siblings, she doesn’t)
"When I think of how you've ruined your life, I want to kill myself" \-My father to me at 18 in my final year of high school. It was the the only promise he kept.
My boss pointing at me said to my coworkers "He may be fat but he is the most hard working person here".
"No one is going to want to have you as their gf while you're this fat" -my moms friend. I was 14 at that time and not even fat. It still haunts me