Part 5! What to do if you are not invited to a wedding! (Shortest version)

Originally uploaded: August 8th, 2021

Youtube Link: https://youtu.be/sjxc88KmLvk

Filename: What to do if you are not invited to a wedding Short Final.mp3

Thank you for all the DMs, comments on the 2020 versions. I was asked for a part 3 and to dive in a little deeper, here we go! Due to this being a tad bit long, I put time stickers so you can watch your part and get going, or watch the whole thing. Up to you. This Youtube channel is a pandemic project that ended up connecting me to peeps in ways I didn't expect. As a small YouTube channel this is all a surprise. I usually expect only 10 views on these vids and no comments, so thank you.

Article Version: (If you prefer to read): https://aleshapeterson.medium.com/what-to-do-if-you-are-not-invited-to-a-wedding-96e15471b3e7

*I will also make a separate video of just my favorite things without the wedding invite stuff. I found more favorite things as I edited this...."

My favorite things:
0-2:30 Jellie Bellies, Jellie Babies, Veggo Bears, Dots, Bean Gluten Chips, Organic Acai Pop Tarts, Wicked Crisps (Plant Based), food from other countries, holy moly.

https://gtfoitsvegan.com/product/vegobears-sour-gummy-bears-venice-beach-by-candy-people-usa/?v=7516fd43adaa

https://www.foodservicedirect.com/bushs-best-sea-salt-bean-chips-1-5-ounce-48-per-case-23048251.html?gclid=Cj0KCQjwsZKJBhC0ARIsAJ96n3WG_2_1oIv4s2056D2VU0Jpkaa-52usOGqmjCt5m-m7qqjgMVKOohoaAn7eEALw_wcB

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My mating call for food comes out. (People think I'm having an orgasm on set, but I'm not and get your mind out the glutter yalllllll.) This is literally me getting excited over eating food.

2:30-4:10 Minty Relieph, & Eighty One, thank you for existing and being a part of my self care routine. Both products make the hard days easier to get through.They have no idea, but their products are life savers. Love ya cuzzos for creating them! Sorry if I messed up the name lolz.

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Watching peers pass away constantly is extremely painful and hard. My grieving style is I usually get fearful to do anything and lose confidence. I've been breaking out/scarring more in my face in recent months and the 81 Face & Body helps with that. I use Minty Relieph for eczema, dry skin, and itchy skin.

4:36-5:36 Name shout outs! (Again, sorry if I messed up your names)

5:36 If any family members happen to come across this. Hello loves. Got some DMs from some cuzzos from first versions of this video. So I added this just in case they make it to the 3rd video. I found out after the edits I'm actually 7th generation. I'm going to check at the next Peterson reunion to be sure. Whoopz.

6:15-7:00 Lil cuzzos/cousins probably not the video for you to watch until you get older, sorry loves. The 2020 versions of this is one of my most commented videos, and I was asked for more bluntness. Watch those instead and watch this when you are a little older. AGAIN, DON'T WATCH IF YOU DONT LIKE CURSING ALSO. Family members, loves, this is no longer 9 year old Alesha from the 1999 Atlanta reunion. Just warning you for the last time. I curse like a damn sailor.

7:00-26:00 The official start of part 3! Why I'm #1 on the cut lists. (You asked for the shit and inside scoop according to DMs, private messages, here it is due to popular demand lol. I didn't think people would watch or comment on the 2020 vids so thank youuuu once again). I talk about life beyond wedding invites also.

The more you watch, the more you notice it's about life and goes beyond about getting invited to things.

If you are interested, you have to watch and see.

22:55: https://aleshapeterson.medium.com/when-someone-you-love-dismisses-your-pain-650f2ad8f7f

23:48: https://innerfokus.com/blog-invisiblechronicillness/

26:30-30:53 Why some people on my end of the branch take it wayyy too personally when they don't invited. Lord help them.....They will get over it, eventually....I hope. For shit's sake. Please help me help them find something else to do.

(For Christ sake, it's annoying to hear them talk about it over and over. I think they wish they got married themselves, as stated in the video.)

30:54- YOU MADE IT TO THE END! More blunt *ADVICE* on if you really wanted to be there but you didn't get invited.

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