Borderlines Use You

Borderlines Use You

Borderlines Use You because they are incapable (untreated) of love or attachment. You are emotionally experienced (unconsciously) by them as a “good parent” when not devaluing you. They in a child-like way expect you to validate them, give them what they want when they want it.

They don’t give back. They aren’t capable of healthy mutuality. These are the endless eggshells that you walk on trying to stay out of their splits to devaluation.

Do you ever really feel respected or like the borderline you “know” or “knew” cares about your feeling or needs?

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