Vulnerability is a Strength Not A Weakness

Vulnerability is a Strength Not A Weakness

I have an obvious difference - I'm very fat. This is the result of a medical condition and not anything emotional and I don't have an eating disorder. Had I not found my way to healing many years ago from a Cluster B dysfunctional family of origin I would be without the hard earned gift of my healthy self-esteem and self-worth. I know that my size is seen, among other things, as a vulnerability that trolls love to attack thinking it is a weakness of mine and where they can most hurt me. That's just not true. What others perceive as my vulnerability is a strength and not a weakness for me. I will do me and be me, fat and all.

There are as many vulnerabilities and then some as their are people. Differences need to be respected. If you are just coming out of a relationship with a Borderline or Narcissist and/or from a Narcissistic Dysfunctional family of origin, in your healing and recovery process, don't allow anyone to define you anymore. Working toward healing you will learn to empower yourself and build healthy self-esteem and self-worth. Self-partnering and self respect is invaluable. Do you and be you, unapologetically.

I have been working with clients to help them heal from BPD or NPD Relationship breakups, Dysfunctional families of origin, Codependency, CPTSD, PTSD, for 33 years. My medical condition has been a problem for the last 3-4 years primarily. It's not cool to be fat and especially not as a Youtuber in our Narcissistic culture.

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