Loving a Borderline - Who Is The Borderline You Love?

Loving a Borderline - Who Is The Borderline You Love?

Loving a borderline? Who is the borderline you love? Think about that. Loving a borderline is often caretaking for the borderline while losing yourself more and more. Relationships with people with Borderline Personality (especially untreated) are not healthy, there is no reciprocity or mutuality. Your needs aren't met. You continue to self-abandon to try to fix, rescue, make the borderline aware, get them to therapy. Who is that borderline that you love who does not have a known self - no stable sense of self and who can't see you or love or attach to you because they have no container of self.

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