BPD Ex & Still Wanting The “Amazing Feelings” Back? Those feelings are still hurting you.

BPD Ex & Still Wanting The “Amazing Feelings” Back? Those feelings are still hurting you. The idealization and intensity of those feelings in the honeymoon phase might have felt amazing but they can’t ever be recaptured.

It is the cognitive dissonance of remembering and people often ruminating on only those great feelings that is actually hurting you more now.

Those feelings were felt and experienced in a fantasy.