BPD Ex Experience & Codependency Recovery | Interview with A.J. Mahari

BPD Ex Experience & Codependency Recovery | Interview with A.J. Mahari

A man 60+ years old who is the Ex of a woman with BPD and a client of mine in therapy for his Codependency finding his way forward and feeling better shares his experience in
this interview with A.J. Mahari.

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BPD Ex Experience & Codependency Recovery | Interview with A.J. Mahari

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0:00 Video Intro
0:26 John Intro
1:17 John's BPD Relationship
1:40 BPD Relationship Beginning
4:30 Feeling Seen Heard Valued
5:03 Ex BPD's Abandonment Fears
9:15 First Devaluation Split
10:38 On/Off Breakups & Hoovers
12:44 Experiencing Devaluation
13:14 BPD Alcoholic
14:42 Fights BPD's Attention Needs
16:05 More Little Things Frog In The Water
16:39 Noticing More & Dread
17:34 Knowing BPD More - Alcoholism & Her Violence
21:32 Anti-Social Behaviors Or Not?
23:08 Focused On "Positive" Not Damage
23:35 Denial
24:01 Childhood Wounds Codependent Programming
24:37 Codependent Repetition Compulsions
25:40 Last 6 weeks BPD Relationship
26:11 BPD Flashes Of Insight
29:31/BPD & Psyche Meds
31:57 Social Media Validation Etc.
32:13 BPD Flashes of Insight BPD Testing
33:19 Codependent Not Seen By BPD
35:59 BPD Transient Psychosis or Flashback?
37:43 BPD Focus People Talking About Them & Codependency
38:31 BPD Alter Ego?
40:36 BPD Gender & Orientation
44:30 BPD & Truth as Lies?
49:07 BPD Research After Breakup
45:07 End Of Relationship
47:37 BPD Ex Meets Next Ex
51:37 Codependent Self Avoid in Too Much BPD Focus
52:36 Codependent Realization It's Not All The BPD
54:21 Therapy To Heal BPD Breakup & Codependency
59:02 Therapy NOT Coda
1:01:32 Codependency Mental Health Issue
1:04:01 Codependency Is Serious
1:16:01 Codependency Feeling Bad Is Not Okay
1:25:01 Recovery At Any Age
1:26:04 Lost Time & Grief
1:26:10 Can't Get Time Back
1:26:41 At Any Age Never Too Late To Heal
1:27:21 Recovery A Journey Not A Destination
1:28:03 Life, Therapy, Closure Each is A Journey
1:30:17 Skills & Tools Toward Independence & Adulting
1:30:54 A Healthy Difference In This Interview