Borderlines and Codependents Meet In A "Dance" of Loss of Self Not "Love"

Borderline Can't Be "Me" with You & Codependents' "To Be Me" I Must Help You - Dance of Self Abandonment

Borderlines feel (magical thinking) "I can't be me" with you, the codependent, anymore than you the codependent can be "you" with a borderline because they don't see you, hear you, or understand (untreated) how they are negatively impacting you and beyond. A call for people with Codependency to get into recovery with a professional and/or continue with one you might be working with.

The focus of people with Codependency needs to be on the question, "What about me?" You need to realize that you are causing yourself even more pain on top of the Borderline.

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