BPD Can You Give A Borderline An Element of what BPD's Need & Not Get Pulled in And Used?

Can you give a person with Borderline Personality some of what they need? No, you can't and here's why. No good deed goes unpunished.
http://ajmahari.ca
http://ajmahari.ca/contact - Sessions for BPD Loved Ones (or Ex's)
http://phoenixrisingpublications.com - Ebooks on BPD
http://borderlinepersonality.ca
http://borderlinepersonality.typepad.com