Borderline Hoovering What to do?

Borderline Hoovering What to do?

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If you experience any form of a hoover from a person with Borderline Personality Disorder that you may still love or care about you either cut-off your relationship or that you may have ended the relationship - or that you may be on/off cycles of endings/beginnings of relationship with - It is important that you lead with your head not your heart. Remember how you have been treated, abused, hurt, and how that BPD person in your life is taking ZERO responsibility for that. If you go around again, each time that happens the cycle intensifies. Borderlines hoover to see if they can be taken back with no responsibility on their part and to see if any of your limits or boundaries will be upheld by you. If they aren't, the borderline feels more emboldened then ever to be as they have always been.

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