The false Hope of "Hope" for BPD NPD Loved Ones

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The cognitive dissonance that drives hope against all hope for loved ones of those with Borderline Personality Disorder and/or Narcissistic Personality Disorder keeps you trapped in pain, often abuse and mounting trauma. You need to radically accept that the person who love is not the person that you KNOW. You know that right? How can you start to care more about yourself and focus more on yourself? When "Hope" has passed into "false hope" pain and frustration grow worse. Self-doubt grows. Self-esteem and worth disappear and you become the person allowing yourself to be further abused by still being there. Isn't it time for you to take care of you? Don't you matter enough? You might believe that now. Its not true. You matter so very much. You matter way more than enough to leave.

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