Trauma Bonds With Cluster B Personalities

People, especially, the child and then adult-child of a parent or parents, in relationship to or with someone with Borderline Personality Disorder, Narcissistic Personality Disorder or Anti Social Personality Disorder, are often unknowingly attached in very unhealthy ways. This type of bond, a is not at all a healthy bond or healthy attachment - it is addiction. People do feel attached so strongly that it feels like it will destroy you. Clients have often described this to me as feeling that something broke and that they are so broken now. This can bring about strong feelings of need for the Cluster B in spite of the high conflict, and confusion the often used tactic, among others, of intermittent reinforcement that fools you back into biting a hook again, if even for a short time.

https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Blogs - Newsletter
https://ajmahari.com Courses - Ebooks - Audio - Break The Trauma Bond Course coming soon (2019)