Change The Mood, Not The Mind

In a social situation, whether with women or men, if the conversation goes to a place where the mood in the group becomes negative or undesirable. Most guys will attempt to change the mind, by arguing their view point. This fails in addressing the feeling and often times if someone is emotional they will not be open to reason.

The other way is to change the mood. When everyone else is getting hot and bothered, you can be the guy that embeds a positive emotion into the dynamic. Perhaps a joke or showing understanding. In other words, you acknowledge how the person feels, and you assist in elevating the feeling to a better place.

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