Taking Control_ Unleashing the Power of Your Mind and Embracing Responsibility

Also I think especially in the West a lot of people's problems are all in their mind and I'm not saying that mental conditions aren't real because absolutely some are but I try and explain to people look if you the only thing on the planet you have genuine control over is your state of mind Like you can't even control your health You might get hit by lightning You can't control other people You can't control the weather You can't control anything The only thing you can affect in genuine real time is how you feel in your head If someone comes to me and goes oh I get really shy and anxious I'll say so Right Not not oh okay That must be horrible No so do anyway Yeah but I'm shy I don't care I don't no one cares The whole world doesn't care Nobody cares Go If you could drop dead tomorrow the world wouldn't care The sun's still going to rise People are still going to go to work So you're going to sit around and worry about speaking When people come to me and say I'm not happy I say why should you be happy You're and and and we're all adults here This infantile mindset that we're all supposed to be like we were when we were three years old and oh something shiny Laugh all the time Run around in circles We're grown-ups and we have responsibilities and we have problems and we have pressure and you don't necessarily have to be happy to perform especially if you're a man Like like women have this I will I guess to a degree they're born lucky Women have this mindset where they can people expect women to be happy Women need to be happy But as a man you have a burden of performance