Here's why Your Relationships get TOXIC

You start with a happy relationship with your significant other, everything is amazing and going perfectly fine. Then things hit the fan. One day you wake up and realise you are in a toxic relationship.

Now this happens when one of you or each of you wants to establish control in the relationship. So when controlling each other comes into play, it ruins the relationship dynamic.

Because you cannot control anyone, all you end up doing is building up pressure on the other person, and this reflects on you. Whatever you give out to the world comes back to you.

Now they want to control you too. And things just get worse and worse.

So instead of making the other person follow your beliefs, likes, dislikes and trying to control them. Just allow them to be who they are. When you allow them to be who they are, they'll do the same for you.
This creates space for real love to come in and take over. Essentially, reducing the pain, shame, and guilt of a toxic relationship.

So let go of your trauma and control mechanism, and watch the relationship blossom.