Functional: Dad's Growing Alcoholic Monster

Love Law and Life Makeover Podcast Episode Synopsis

In this episode of the Love Law and Life Makeover podcast, Neil Presley Cox and Kelsy Gibbs delve into the chapter titled "Functional Dad's Growing Alcoholic Monster" from Neil's book, "Hope Lines." The episode begins with Neil introducing the topic and providing an overview of the chapter, focusing on the story of an alcoholic who is a functional drinker but gradually spirals downward.

Neil shares personal anecdotes about his grandfather's struggle with alcoholism, highlighting the gradual descent into addiction and the impact it had on his family. The discussion then shifts to the definition of alcoholism, with Neil emphasizing the importance of self-identification as an alcoholic and the inability to control drinking as key indicators.

Kelsy raises an interesting point about functioning alcoholics and questions the incentive for them to seek help if they believe they are not directly harming anyone. Neil challenges this notion, emphasizing that every action has consequences and that even functioning alcoholics inevitably hurt themselves and those around them.

The conversation delves into the compounding effects of small decisions and the importance of self-awareness in recognizing the impact of one's actions on loved ones. Neil shares insights from his 20 years of recovery, highlighting the profound influence of love and kindness on others.

The episode concludes with a poignant reminder from Neil about the urgency of addressing alcoholism, especially for parents, as children do not wait for their parents to get their act together and continue to grow and change.

Listeners are encouraged to purchase Neil's book, "Hope Lines," either on Amazon or through his website, and can even visit his office in Clarkston, Washington, for a signed copy. The episode leaves a lasting impression on the importance of self-awareness, love, and the impact of our actions on those around us.

00:00:00 - Introduction to Love Law and Life Makeover podcast
00:02:55 - Neil shares a story about his grandfather's alcoholism
00:06:10 - Discussion on the definition of alcoholism
00:10:33 - Exploring the impact of functioning alcoholics on others
00:14:51 - The compounding effect of small decisions on life
00:16:20 - Importance of addressing alcoholism for the sake of family and children

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