Excavating deep self sacrificing patterns and sacrifice programming

Many relationships have a sacrifice, people-pleasing, submissive or shame and guilt component. Accepting to play by the terms of others, not realizing it has a draining cost for us ; sacrifice programming sets us on automatic rails.

Sacrifice and savior programming can be very hidden in the layers which make them tricky to navigate. These are deep hidden programs taking years to uncover in their most subtle layers. We can be conned by our own programming and we are often. The programming becomes clearer with time.

This ties as well to alters and victim consciousness, to exploitation and usery. Working through alter aspects that are overly compassionate. We are not in true genuine authentic efficient service when we're acting from sacrifice programming.