How to Know When to Stay at a Church & When to Go?

In this episode of the Church Disrupted Podcast, Jeff Cochran, Leann Reece, and Corey Laster explore the question of when it's time to leave a church environment, especially when there are signs of spiritual abuse or toxicity. The hosts discuss their personal experiences and offer insights on recognizing red flags and setting boundaries. They emphasize the importance of healing and finding safe people to talk to.

In this conversation, Jeff and the crew discuss the process of deciding whether it's time to leave a church. They provide guidance on how to navigate this decision, emphasizing the importance of self-reflection, seeking counsel, and setting boundaries. They also discuss the different scenarios that may arise, such as staying too long, needing to leave immediately, or trying to make a change within the church.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction: When is it time to leave a church?
02:18 Recognizing Red Flags and Setting Boundaries
11:55 Leaving a Church without Villainizing
16:30 Healing and Verbalizing the Truth
31:09 Seeking Input and Making the Decision
34:58 Importance of Healing in the Decision
35:26 Trusting Your Gut: Knowing When to Leave a Church
37:50 Having Civil, Helpful, and Loving Conversations
41:01 Assessing Your Feelings: A Key Indicator for Leaving
46:46 Leaving in a Healthy and Honoring Way
57:33 Acknowledging Hurt and Finding a Safe Place to Land
01:10:29 Deciding to Leave for a New Season
01:11:57 Setting a Firm End Date
01:13:23 Having the Conversation and Leaving
01:14:20 Setting a Date and Making Arrangements
01:17:43 Protecting the Most Vulnerable Person
01:19:38 Empathy and Healing in the Body
01:21:02 Empathy and Healing in Relationships
01:27:14 Healing Faster and Helping Others
01:30:36 Empathy as a Sign of Healing
01:34:02 Prioritizing Safety and Leaving