Let’s capture the drama and intensity of 1 Samuel 22.

The transformation of Saul from a humble, hesitant figure to a paranoid and murderous king is stark and tragic. His descent mirrors the spiritual downfall of someone who turns away from Yahuah, consumed by jealousy, anger, and a refusal to repent. (Satan for example)
As for Doeg, he's an Edomite, (Esau’s kids) a member of a people historically antagonistic towards Israel. His willingness to carry out Saul's horrific orders, even when Saul's own men refuse, shows the depth of his malice and lack of moral compass. It's significant that an outsider to Israel, someone not bound by the same covenant relationship with Yahuah, would be the one to commit such an atrocity. This highlights how far Saul has fallen—he’s now relying on those outside of Yahuah's people to do his dirty work.
David's response is telling of his character and heart for Yahuah. Rather than seeking vengeance or blaming others, David acknowledges his role in the situation. His acceptance of responsibility, even when he could easily point fingers, shows a profound humility and a deep sense of accountability before Yahuah. This is what sets David apart as a man after Yahuah’s own heart, in contrast to Saul’s stubborn pride and refusal to admit fault.
Our insight into the dynamics of conflict is powerful. Often, the person who is quick to blame others, to always play the victim or the accuser, (Satan) may indeed be revealing a deeper issue of pride or self-righteousness. On the other hand, the one who accepts responsibility, even when it’s not entirely their fault, demonstrates a humility and a commitment to righteousness. This echoes the parable of the wheat and the tares (weeds) in Matthew 13, where Yahuah distinguishes between the true and the false, the humble and the proud.
David's willingness to protect the remnant after the massacre further underscores his shepherd's heart—a heart that seeks to care for and protect Yahuah's people, even in the midst of great personal danger and loss. This contrasts sharply with Saul, who is more concerned with preserving his own power than with the well-being of Yahuah's people.
This reflection on how to discern the true character of individuals in conflict is profound and applicable. It’s often not just the words spoken, but the underlying attitudes and actions that reveal the true nature of a person’s heart. Those who embody humility, responsibility, and a willingness to protect others, even at a personal cost, are often the ones who reflect Yahuah’s heart.