148: Energy, Motivation, and Work Ethic: Keys to Raising Successful Children- Christina

"Putting something out into the world and having people receive it and give me positive reinforcement for it is something I didn't realize I needed."
"I feel like I have more energy and resources to devote to a hobby."
"Success is necessary. It is a necessary part of life."
"There's no like duck down. Well, if you turn it in, cause back in the day used to be okay, you turn this in late, even in when I was going to college, you turn this in late 20 % deduction, just automatically off the top, not even considering any mistakes or anything that you make."
"There's a need to make sure that we help our kids want to chase success because success is a lot of fun to chase, to be successful, to be on that grind."
"My job is to support my husband in having the best possible relationship with his kids."

Summary
In this conversation, Jey and Christina discuss various topics related to parenting and personal growth. They touch on the challenges of scheduling events during work hours, the importance of finding creative outlets, and the validation that comes from putting something out into the world. They also talk about the impact of childhood experiences on confidence and success, the changing education system, and the need for emotional intelligence. Christina shares her approach to teaching her son about success and accountability. In this conversation, Jey and Christina discuss the importance of motivation, ambition, and work ethic in raising successful children. They also explore the dynamics of blended families and the challenges of co-parenting. Christina emphasizes the need for clear communication and setting boundaries within the family. She also advises young couples to stay connected and save money for their children's future.

Takeaways
Finding creative outlets and receiving validation can be incredibly fulfilling and validating.
Childhood experiences and positive reinforcement can shape a person's confidence and drive for success.
The education system's emphasis on flexibility and forgiveness may have unintended consequences, such as a lack of accountability and a diminished sense of urgency.
Teaching emotional intelligence and the importance of success and accountability can help children navigate life and achieve their goals. Motivation, ambition, and work ethic are important qualities to instill in children to help them succeed in life.
Clear communication and setting boundaries are crucial in blended families to maintain harmony and support each other.
Saving money for your child's future, such as through a college savings plan, can alleviate financial stress later on.
Young couples should stay connected and support each other during the challenging early stages of parenthood.

Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Welcoming the Guest
02:15 The Challenges of Scheduling Events
07:49 The Impact of the Education System
23:41 Teaching Accountability and Success
29:45 Nurturing Ambition and Success in Children
34:39 Navigating Co-Parenting and Setting Boundaries in Blended Families
43:49 Understanding and Managing Sibling Dynamics
54:58 The Importance of Communication and Self-Advocacy for New Parents

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