Why Sweatpants vs. Dressing Up Matters in Relationships!

Now I'm not saying that we should always get dressed up But you know the whole thing that girls do They spend a ton of time getting ready for a date A ton I mean but then the longer we've been married the less that would happen And then My wife on the other side she will go to a movie or something and she'll be like I'm just going to go to the movies in a pair of sweats I'm like that's fine Let's be comfortable And so we'll both go that same way And then sometimes she's like hey let's dress up And so again it comes down to you gotta just be honest with each other And I think for her I tell Fernando I'm like can we go on a date Can we And even if it's something so simple because you know you want to feel pretty you want to get dressed up and you know after even you know being a mom I'm like oh my gosh like don't really get myself all dolled up but when I do you could see like in his face like oh my god you know he gets he is all smiley and stuff but no I respect the sweatpants but also respect the putting effort in to get ready there you know my wife looks beautiful in sweatpants and he looks she looks beautiful in a dress or whatever and but let me tell you what the the when she dresses up I mean it's kind of like when you know women love a man in a uniform When my wife puts on a dress or whatever just something that's really nice Wow I am like awestruck
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Even now after all these years we've known each other It is just like holy crap And I always tell people I jokingly even doing the thing that we did with that little adventure we had I'd always jokingly tell people I married a ten and I did marry a ten And I tell people I married a ten but I'm a three but I'm glad that she's blind so she doesn't know love that I mean really she's been a ten all her life I am one hundred percent proof That a three can pull a ten but it just comes down to confidence We love it We love the confidence Devin Yeah well occasionally I have the confidence Sometimes I don't but I don't know I don't know why she married me but whatever the reason was I'm glad that she did
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So I guess miss called miss called off guard She gets she needs to have the real conversation and she needs to let him know that Hey that's not appropriate I need you to stop That's that's what I would do You know just just how would homeboy feel if she was doing it It froze or reversed
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I feel like it's always so contradicting when guys can do whatever they may and then as soon as their significant other pulls the same stuff they get all upset You know I've always been a believer of no double standards If I can't get away with it you shouldn't be able to get away with it I think that's right
[46:23-47:05]
You know if she was doing the same thing if this was my relationship wow i would be this would be a this would be a conversation and we would have this conversation because that's just yeah i would as she says on in the in this email she can't help but feeling betrayed yeah you should feel betrayed absolutely should feel i just want to give her a hug No she does need a hug Obviously they've been in a relationship for a while and so there is something that's worth salvaging I'm a firm believer that almost every relationship is worth salvaging unless it's physical or just extreme abuse or any abuse I don't put up with abuse I think that's just wrong