Stop depending on others to feel "COMPLETE"

If you need somebody in order for you to feel complete, guess what you will never feel truly complete, even when you are with that specific person.

It's like when you are relying on someone else to feel complete, you are essentially basing your self-esteem and self-worth on them.

Moreover, your entire happiness is somewhat dependent on their words, opinions, and thoughts of you. And if they don't give you love or make you feel worthy, you are completely shattered on the inside.

This is not healthy and this is not the way. If you don't address this, you'll end up as a people pleaser who is just looking for other people's approval and validation to feel worthy and loved on the inside.

To overcome this, you have to dive deep and understand why you do this in the first place. If you have an honest talk with yourself, and dive down deep you will figure out the situations that made you act like this.

The reason we end up seeking approval and validation from other people is that we haven't received it in our childhood.

While you were a kid, all you ever knew was home and school. Your home and school were your entire world, and if you didn't feel loved or worthy here, you felt unsafe....And to combat this you decided to please other people and win their approval in order to feel loved...or in other words...FEEL SAFE!

This would've grown as a habit and you would've developed a pattern of pleasing other people to feel safe and worthy..

So all you have to do is dive deep and find out the situations that made you act like this. Overcome all the trauma and let go of it.

Once you have done the inner work and feel whole without depending on others, you achieve true freedom.

As if you don't truly love yourself why should anybody else love you? If you don't feel worthy why should anyone else find you worthy?

By doing the inner work and letting go of your trauma, you increase your self-worth and you'll never have to depend on anyone else to feel complete

It's like you become whole and complete yourself. Moreover, you'll find people who are also whole and complete on the inside and you will come together and create more love together.

And to make this happen..... It all starts with YOU!