Love And Attention Are The Same Thing

If you want to love someone properly, find a way to be interested in them. When you genuinely pay attention to someone they will feel loved by you and you will get to know them well enough to love them. This is particularly important to keep in mind when interacting with children, who are very aware of how interested you are in them. Your lack of interest will be interpreted as a lack of love, and children need love to grow into healthy adults.