#26 - Can I Show the Love of Christ While Harboring Bitterness?

Listener Question:

@recipefordisaster asked:

“Can I show the love of Christ but still harbor bitterness in my heart? Can the two coincide?”

This episode tackles a profound and relatable question. Here’s what we discuss:

Can God Use Imperfect People?

Yes! Scripture reminds us that no one is perfect (1 John 1:8). God used imperfect, flawed people throughout history—and He can use us, too.
Can God Use Rebellious People?

While God can use anyone, He often chooses those who choose to follow Him (Matthew 16:24). A heart of humility and surrender is key to being fully used by Him (James 4:6).

The Danger of Bitterness:

Resentment is deceptive. As St. Augustine said, “Resentment is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die.”
Bitterness, described as a root in Hebrews 12:15, doesn’t just harm you—it defiles those around you.

The Power of Forgiveness:

Jesus offers forgiveness, which abolishes bitterness. We forgive not because others deserve it, but because Christ has forgiven us (Hebrews 12:1-2).

Forgiveness is the antidote to bitterness and the key to freedom, grace, and peace in Christ.

Practical Help:

Clingy sins like bitterness can be difficult to shed. That’s why God gave us the church—a community of believers to run alongside us in the race of faith.
If you’re struggling, find a godly mentor or friend to help you forgive and let go of bitterness.

🎙️ Tune in to hear biblical truths, pastoral encouragement, and practical steps to let go of bitterness and embrace the freedom Jesus offers.

Scriptures Mentioned:

1 John 1:8
Matthew 16:24
James 4:6
Hebrews 12:1-2, 12:15
John 8

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