The 4 Laws of Love: I'm Not Sure I Trust You - 205

Communication of any type requires trust. The deeper the level of communication, the more trust must be present. Open, honest, and intimate sharing means we must open our heart and expose ourselves. Then the most sensitive areas of our life are most vulnerable.

We will not open the deepest parts of our hearts when there is a significant risk of hurt, betrayal, or rejection. The equation: the more you gain my trust, the wider the door of my heart opens. The more you violate my trust, the more the door closes.

Michelle and I trust each other. Granted, she may not always be able to trust me to take out the trash, and maybe I can’t necessarily trust her to pick out a television show we both want to watch on a relaxing Friday night at home. But when it comes to the important stuff in our marriage — what makes us both feel safe, connected, honored, valued, and loved — we trust each other implicitly. I trust that she’s there for me, and she trusts that I’m always there for her.

Do you trust your spouse? Are you able to communicate with them the deepest, darkest secrets you've shared with no one else?

If you need help building your trust in your spouse this week's episode is for you. If you aren't married yet, this will still help you as you eventually transition into that stage in life.

Trust is a vital emotional need in marriage that helps create a foundation of safety, openness, and mutual respect.

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