Goodbye to closed doors

"There's a little game Jose and I play sometimes, where we trace back through everything that had to happen in order for us to meet. The jobs we did or didn't get. The trips we did or didn't take. The other loves that didn't workout so that ours could". Dandelion Seed.

Goodbye to closed doors.
Every relationship ends in breakup, divorce or death.
A door can close suddenly or instantly, little by little or have a known fixed date.
There's a period of time between your subconscious noticing a closed door, your brain understanding a closes door and your heart accepting a closed door.
Advice if you're facing a door closed:
Be gentle with yourself.
Understand this is the first time you're dealing with this.
Recognize the pattern or save the features that'll allow you to recognize the pattern.
Ask yourself: Do I want to live this again? Is there something in my hand that I can do for me to not live something like this again?
Gather information to live this life.
Ask if you learned something and save the lesson.
There's people that can accept a closed door immediately and change. There's also people that take their time. Discover yourself.
Thank God for the doors that didn't happen.