Stop People-Pleasing: My Journey to Self-Love & Healing!

The video explores the narrator's journey of self-discovery, focusing on personal growth, the importance of authentic relationships, and a desire to spread love and healing.
[36:12-36:51]
The narrator reflects on how trying to please others has led him to lose sight of important relationships in his life.
i don't, i'm just And I'm trying to. I've always been the type of guy where I want to please everybody. So it's like I'm too busy. I had been too focused in life trying to please so many people that I have lost sight of a lot of important people that were close to me in my past that I don't see around me at all anymore, which is fine. You know what I mean. But this is me just being real to anybody that may observe this, because it's like I get that. You know what I mean. We all have life experiences and everybody in their experiences grows away or grows closer to, whatever the circumstance.
[36:52-37:36]
He acknowledges the need to reverse his past behaviors to become a beacon of unity and inspiration.
You know what I mean For me. right now. I realize that I could have pushed people away more so just because of the inclusiveness that I had experienced just being by myself throughout a lot of my earlier years. And I'm starting to realize a lot of the things that I need to reverse, engineer in myself to really become the man, the spiritual healer, the friend, the beacon of unity, inspiration of love and light on this planet that I truly want to be- Not one of us, not just me, we all have this opportunity to be something like this.
[39:16-40:00]
The narrator recognizes that both positive and negative experiences have shaped his identity and potential.
It's like I see how, certain in past, things that happened to me in my life have affected me both positively and negatively, And I understand that I couldn't be who I am or to have the potential to be who I could be without actually having to go through these types of experiences. And that's like. that was my own personal realization, And that is something that I wish to share with everybody too, because we all have our own similar situations, positive and negative, that are trials and tribulations to our own life.
[40:24-40:54]
He expresses a strong desire to help and heal others unconditionally.
I don't know man, like if i could like just help anybody and everybody i would because like that's the type of energy that i represent i just want to be a helper and healer and just love the planet and love everybody unconditionally without fucking no bullshit that's just about profiting and damaging control anyway i'm just i'm getting really into this like because i okay anyway The point is, because I was really fired up. That was like the lovey-dovey part of this.
[42:19-43:09]
The narrator emphasizes the importance of respect in personal growth and acknowledges his past mistakes.
And that quality is about Giving respect, giving love, giving attention, responding, and doing all the things that I probably haven't done in the past. And I acknowledge that I'm You know, I've pissed off a lot of people. I've upset a lot of people. And I probably have a lot of enemies out there. Go figure. And that's cool. But at the same time I'm just saying that I don't personally look at anybody that hates me or whatever has a negative thought towards me in that way. I don't want to look at people that way. So for me I'm sorry if I did something consciously or unconsciously that affected anybody to have that feeling about me. And it's not about trying to make any and everybody like me.