Why Some People Resist Your Healing

Not everyone will celebrate your growth—and that doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong.

There’s a reason why healing feels lonely sometimes.
Like a lobster trying to climb out of the boiling pot, the moment you start rising—choosing peace, setting boundaries, walking in confidence—someone will try to pull you back down.

They may say you’ve changed.
They may call you distant, cold, or selfish.
But what they really mean is: “You’re no longer easy to control.”

Some people only knew how to love the broken version of you.
The version who stayed small, quiet, and available for their dysfunction.

But healing shifts the dynamic.
It reveals who was truly for you—and who was only there for your pain.

Don’t go back to make others comfortable.
You weren’t made to stay where suffering was normal.

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