Is Your Marriage a Transaction or a Transformation?

There are two mindsets we bring into marriage:
1️⃣ What can I get out of this?
2️⃣ How can I grow through this?

The first keeps score.
It’s transactional. Conditional. Focused on self.

The second? It’s transformational.
It asks: What is God trying to refine in me through this relationship?
Where is He stretching me, teaching me, and calling me higher?

Marriage isn’t just about happiness—it’s about holiness.
It’s not just about what your spouse brings to the table.
It’s about how you respond when the table’s empty.

The question isn’t just “Is this working for me?”
It’s “Am I letting God work through me—in this?”

Your marriage can be the very tool God uses to develop your character, deepen your faith, and grow your capacity to love.

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