Should you try to heal someone with past trauma in a relationship?

Should you try to heal someone with past trauma in a relationship?
In this 9-minute video, we dive deep into why we feel compelled to "fix" a partner’s pain, what it costs us, and how to support them without losing yourself. From empathy traps to cultural narratives, we explore why we take on the savior role and how it impacts both partners. Through real stories like Alex’s heartbreak and Maya’s balanced approach, you’ll see the difference between rescuing and supporting. Learn practical steps: set boundaries, practice reflective listening, and point them to professional help. Discover why true love means respecting their healing journey while prioritizing your own growth.
Timestamps:
0:00 - Why we try to heal someone with past trauma
1:45 - The empathy trap and validation seeking
3:20 - Real story: Alex’s heartbreak
5:10 - Maya and David’s balanced relationship
6:30 - Common myths about fixing someone
7:50 - Practical tips to support without sacrificing
If you’ve ever felt drained trying to fix a partner, this video is for you. Share your thoughts below! For more on healthy relationships, subscribe and hit the bell.

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Attribution: Stories are anonymized and based on common experiences shared in relationship coaching and therapy contexts. No real names or identifying details are used.