Father Forgets: Lessons in Patience and Presence for Dads

In this heartfelt episode, hosts E.a. Maynard, Mr. Pancakes (Eric), and Tom explore the timeless poem "Father Forgets" by W. Livingston Larned, featured in Dale Carnegie’s How to Win Friends and Influence People. The poem’s narrative of a father reflecting on his overly critical approach to his son sparks a deep discussion on fatherhood, presence, and personal growth. The hosts share personal stories—from E.a. Maynard’s journey bonding with his son over snakes to Mr. Pancakes’ insights on emotional control and Tom’s reflections on work-life integration. They emphasize the importance of meeting kids where they are, being present (even imperfectly), and learning from mistakes to become better dads. Packed with humor, vulnerability, and practical advice, this episode is a must-listen for fathers seeking to grow in their roles.

Show Article/Summary: https://callwithdads.com/?p=4022

Guest Spotlight:

No guest featured in this episode, but the hosts bring their A-game! E.a. Maynard, Mr. Pancakes (revealed as Eric), and Tom share their experiences as fathers, offering relatable insights and candid reflections on the challenges and joys of parenting.

Hosts:

E.a. Maynard: A work-from-home dad balancing family, homeschooling, and a passion for helping dads improve through Call Your Dads.

Mr. Pancakes (Eric): A father and aerospace professional who’s stepping out from behind the blur to share his journey, including his upcoming nonprofit, American Liberty Foundation.

Tom: A dad of three daughters, creator of Marriage-Material.com, and advocate for fathers standing against cultural decay.

Resources Mentioned:

Poem: "Father Forgets" by W. Livingston Larned

Book: How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie

Website: AmericanLiberty-Foundation.org (Mr. Pancakes’ nonprofit in progress)

Website: Marriage-Material.com (Tom J’s merchandise for fathers and husbands)

Website: PancakesWithYourDad.com (Mr. Pancakes’ hub with free woodworking resources, children’s books, and more)

Podcast: The Father Effect by John Finch (mentioned for its insights on fatherhood)

Connect With Us:

Website: CallWithDads.com (contact form and host profiles)

Mr. Pancakes: PancakesWithYourDad.com, @PancakesWithYourDad on X, Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, TruthSocial

Tom: @EarnerRespect on X, Marriage-Material.com

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